Where did happiness go

Happiness, each of us is looking forward to our own happiness. What is happiness? When I was a child, happiness was a beloved toy; A hug from my mother; A story before going to bed; A play with my friends grew up gradually, and happiness became complicated and difficult to satisfy. Most of the time, after searching for a long time, I was very tired of chasing myself. At a certain moment, looking up at the vast sky, I suddenly asked myself what I got when I stumbled along the way? What do you want? When I was a child, I felt very happy with a small toy, a simple hug and a short story. Looking back now, I envy the simplicity and purity at that time. Why? Why do you have so much now that you no longer cry for not getting toys, but have no happiness at that time? Where did happiness go? In fact, it is not that we do not have happiness. More often, we lose our way in the ocean of happiness and forget the color of happiness we want. I heard my family talk about happiness like this: Happiness is like playing football most of the time. After we get it, we kick it out, then chase it, and kick it out again. Yes, people are greedy, their desires are endless, and they want something better when they get it. So I kept repeating the action of chasing and discarding. I was accidentally cut off the ball, and suddenly I felt that I had nothing. I fell into deep sorrow and pain. Looking back, I stumbled all the way, and what I was looking for had already been obtained, unfortunately, that is the past. It is said that love is an eternal topic for human beings. In my opinion, this is still a sacred theme. Life becomes colorful and colorful because of love. Each of us is eager to find the Snowyprincess and Prince Charming in our mind, so we put many labels on this person in our mind. Finally, I met a right person, but in the following days of getting along with each other, I found it was not good, and it was not good either. Finally, I couldn’t bear it. I chose to leave and began to look for it again. It goes round and round, and time disappears. I feel that I am no longer young and my face is gone. Forget it, just find someone to make a living. I heard some friends around me complaining that life was not satisfactory after marriage. He didn’t understand romance, laziness and scattered life, and she had no goal; She kept talking and careless all day; Who was gentle and considerate at the beginning, I also know romance and now I have a successful career; Then who is gentle and gentle, not only does he work well, but also takes good care of his family. Why did he not know how to cherish at the beginning, and now he is sent to the arms of others, if time can go back, I will cherish it and never miss it again. Why didn’t I know how to cherish it at the beginning and now I look at the warmth, happiness, sadness and regret of others? Yes, those sweet happiness should belong to you, and it is also your own ruthless abandonment of all this. We are looking for our own happiness, just like looking for the largest tree in the forest that cannot be seen at the edge. We keep walking and looking for it. We always believe that there will be bigger ones later, it was not until we lost our way in the forest and chose one casually in desperation that we realized that we had missed the biggest one. What is happiness? Perhaps happiness has already been by your side, already in your hands, slowly discover, slowly learn to cherish it. Don’t cry bitterly after being cut off the ball; Don’t hand over happiness and regret it later. Not all lost can be recovered, not all broken glasses can be rounded again. Once, my sister and I hated my father very much. I felt that my father always had a straight face and was always angry, which made the atmosphere at home suffocated. I remember when I was a child, I saw my parents quarrelling. My mother cried sadly and thought heartily: This man was not good to her. Why didn’t she divorce? Divorce will definitely make you happier. This time my mother was ill, and my father kept guarding her. Every time he took his mother out for a walk, he held his mother’s hand all the time, as if she was afraid that she would lose her hand as soon as she let her go. After walking back, my mother was not strong enough and would be very tired when going upstairs. Every time I felt that my mother was tired, I carried my mother on my back and went to the seventh floor. My father was short and small, which inevitably made me feel a little funny. Every time I eat, as long as I see that my mother can’t eat, I anxiously ask: is the food not satisfying, what do you want to eat? Tell me I’ll do it for you. In order to make my mother happy, a man who has no interest in life and no humorous cells racked his brain to say some funny words and do some funny actions to make her happy, although the actions will be clumsy and stiff, I still do it seriously. Every day, his mother remembers the time of eating, taking medicine, lunch break and walking more clearly than anyone else. Seeing that he was aging a lot and Haggard a lot, he couldn’t help feeling heartbroken as a child. He was afraid that one day he would also collapse and wanted to share with him, but he would always say: Don’t worry about it, I work well and study well. I am strong and have a good constitution. Don’t worry about it. Now it seems that, in fact, mother is the happiest woman in the world, and I believe she also thinks so. A new couple promised in front of the priest: no matter rich or poor, no matter healthy or ill, they will always be loyal to her, and they will never give up their whole life and only love her. However, she has a man who is fulfilling her promise with actions although she can’t tell her promise with words. After the National Day, Dad’s holiday is coming and he has to go back to work, but he will go home as soon as he gets off work. My mother and I were walking in the Square this afternoon. My father called and said that he would arrive soon. I hung up the phone and my mother said: let’s go to the intersection and wait for him. Soon dad appeared on the opposite side of the road. Who knows a man who was feudal, conservative and not romantic rushed over in a hurry, I held my mother up and turned around for a few times, which seemed to have not been seen for many years. I remember one day, my father and I accompanied my mother to bask in the sun on the bank of the river. I asked my father such a question: they all said that the husband and wife were the same forest bird, and they flew to each other. Why did you and your mother never abandon any difficulties? Dad answered me like this: my mother and I have been in love for 30 years. Our marriage has only emotional basis and no other materials are mixed. When we got married, we really had nothing, the only furniture is a pitiful table for eating. Therefore, as long as I have a little hope, I will not give up. Even if I give up everything, I will not fly to each other. My mother smiled happily: when I was in love with your father, there was nothing for him, just his watermelon. This is the real great love, the real romance and the real happiness. Nothing, never leave, stick to the end. The greatest happiness of a woman is that there is a man who will never abandon her all her life, although the ruthless Burin called time took away her face and made her no longer young and beautiful. Similarly, a man’s greatest happiness is that he can work hard for his beloved woman for a lifetime, his hands are rough for his family, and sweat flows for his family. Ask, in today’s rich life, why do we lose our true love and do not know how to cherish it? Learn to be tolerant in front of love, and no one is perfect. They all say that people fall in love with advantages and live with disadvantages. Only when they can tolerate disadvantages can they get happiness; Learn to insist, only by sticking to it can we see the last most gorgeous scenery; Learn to be brave, don’t be afraid of the present poverty, don’t be afraid of all obstacles in front of us, and firmly believe that as long as two hearts stick together forever, everything can be found, and any obstacles can be cleared. Remember, never be afraid of being brave. If we forget being brave, we may rub shoulders with happiness forever.

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